The Never Ending Eulogy

Sometimes when a relationship dies we get caught in a never ending eulogy at the gravesite of the dead relationship. At the funeral, we spoke extensively and eloquently to dozens of people. They have all long gone from the site. More importantly, our ex-partner never was at the site, and probably is in a comfortable and warm life far distant from there- yet here we are standing alone in the cold rain, miserable, speaking a eulogy that no one will hear nor matters at all.

We need to leave that place of pain, sadness, and gloom. On the way out lock the gate at the entrance. We need to go find that warm, joyful life we deserve.